"Dreams are illustrations on the book your soul is writing about you."

-Marsha Norman

Welcome to Dear Sweet & Low, the fantasy and fetish advice column dedicated to decoding the sexiest, strangest, sweetest, and lowest of our psyches' shadowy wandering. READ THE INTRO NOW. Before we get down and dirty, let's start with a peck on the virtual cheek. I am a.k.a. Devora Gray. You'd think having two personalities is daunting, but trust me when I say, it was the easiest way to let go of my outdated programming and create the life I wanted. I've trekked the country poking my nose into every kind of play possible, from kidnapping to electrocution, furries to blood sport, wrestling domination to trampling. If it had a story behind it, I wrapped around it like a boa constrictor. What people were searching for came down to a simple equation, and it was right in front of them the entire time.

June 11, 2018

In this episode, we're taking a deep breath before talking about the taboo. This taboo? Smoking fetishes. Seductive, dark, unsavory, and intriguing, "capnolagnia" is based on compulsion, but it doesn't have to be the throat-strangling end game. 

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